Ah….the catch 22!
We have been off in Sedona the past couple days and will have some pictures and more stories to tell but for tonight just this one.
In the course of trying to bring up confident little girls that are not afraid of dogs, bugs or people I have probably gone a little too far. Now I know that they should be leary of dogs, bugs and people and I am not suggesting they run up and hug every person, lick every dog or chat up every bug they see. But I don’t want a girl huddled in a corner afraid of any of those things since they are part of every day life. So in my efforts I have taught the girls the ASL word for bug which they use all the time, we also look at bugs outside but they are “not for touching”.
Well we were in Sedona and we were up in the pine trees and there were a few more bugs than in Phoenix, we even had a little snake at our door one day. So the girls were playing and I was cutting up fruit in the kitchen of our condo when Piper came to the kitchen and did the sign for bug. I turned around and she held out her hand, something she always does because she brings me countless (and I mean countless) pieces of fuzz, lint and other things from the floor. I put out my hand to take it and when she placed the item in my hand it crawled up my arm and I jumped and screamed like a little girl afraid of bugs. It was so hysterical, she just stood there and looked at me as if I had lost my marbles. I mean it was clear, she came over, did the sign for bug, made a buzzing sound and then dropped an innocent 8 legged spider into my hand.
I don’t know who was more startled, the spider or me. HA! Jason and I got the spider to crawl onto a piece of paper and put him outside. It was so funny, a memory I will treasure, my little angel brought me a bug and she did not even hurt the little guy.