Do I do this post every month? I don’t know if it is the age, the fact that they have been a little ill, the fact that I now have 3 kids, the girls language advancing or what but I am left feeling, “what about me” almost every day. Maybe it is a sign that I am not meeting my own needs….ahhh I think an epiphany just occurred. I am not meeting my own needs. Note to self, re-evaluate where you are and what needs are not being met and fix them. I think a sitter is in order and I might have to take drastic measures on this front.
I definitely think that Piper and Lela are in a transition phase where they can do more things for themselves but they are not sure they want to. I have been really good at doing things for them and sometimes they like that better either because they get to spend time with me or they just don’t want to do things. It might be a reason for them to spend a little time out of my presence so they can get more comfortable doing things for themselves.
The girls are doing great. I have not posted many new pictures because it seems like we are doing a lot of the same things and because I generally have my hands full, literally! Lela is really into puzzles, Piper is really into annoying Lela as well as words, letters and sounds. We are still transitioning out of naps and it still sucks but we manage. The other day they were picking on each other so much that I put Piper in her bed and then told Lela to go and get in her bed thinking they needed a minute to calm down, well within two minutes they were asleep and slept for 1.5 hours at 4 o’clock! So Piper did not go down until 9:30 and by then I was toast, so much for time with Jason:)
Speaking of Jason he is such a trooper. It has been a hectic, crazy last seven months and I am sure he has some unmet needs too. I think one of them involves a vasectomy, LOL! Anyway, I could not ask for a more supportive, doting, loving, kind husband so I am truly thankful for that!