The girls have moved into the land of choice! It is a good thing. Now we are able to say to them “if you choose to do x, then y will happen.” I am excited because just like when we moved into the land of compromise I think they actually get it. AND the best part is that 99% of the time they choose to do the right thing! Isn’t that exciting? I am so happy to see them growing so well and learning so much, I am so excited to see what their lives will be like, what paths they choose and I am honored that we get to be there along the way to watch them. Whether they succeed or fail, run or walk, fly or sail I am blessed to have been given the chance to see them blossom and grow.
Now don’t get me wrong they can be real stinkers too! They are a bit puny right now so if I don’t keep them constantly entertained they are at each other nit picking each other to death. It can be a bit tiresome but we make it through. Here was a bit of our day today:
I get up and run come home and Piper is eating bfast
I drink my coffee and then
Get all the girls dressed and ready for the day
I gave them a toy I bought on ebay because I knew it was going to be a tough day, it was a used rescue center from Go Diego Go
They played with that with minimal fighting
I played with Landis
Got them ready for a movie (this in itself is exhausting to do in an upbeat positive way with no yelling)
We get to the movie, get our seats, get them settled with popcorn and water, get their ear plugs in
Put Landis to sleep in movie
Come home from movie, Lela is cranky
Feed them lunch
Noa comes over, we drag out the easel and markers and play school while I entertain Landis so she doesn’t “bother” them
Then we go to the park to find pinecones
Come home and make pinecone turkeys
Then we go outside and play baseball
We imagine we are on a ship
We swing
We get in a fight with each other, we come inside
More Diego play while I hold Landis (all 23 lbs) and cook dinner one handed
I set the table, Jason comes home, he gets Landis, I finish dinner
Dinner, bath, more fighting, brush teeth, read books
Jason puts Landis down
Jason and I clean kitchen
I am a vegetable and tomorrow is looking a lot like today without the movie and adding in gymnastics and swimming. Cripes I am tired already!
So although I love this life I have chosen and the path I am on, I am wee bit exhausted:) But…..happy.