Um…not so helpful
It is no secret (except maybe to Lela) that Lela i s not the most helpful child, it could be that or it could be that Piper is THE most helpful child so it makes Lela appear unhelpful. Anyhoo, Piper is always at the ready to run and get something for you, turn off a light, bring over a dish etc. where Lela just looks at you with a glassy stare.
Today the girls were getting their milk out of the fridge and I asked if one of them could hand Landis her milk since she cannot reach. Lela looked right at me reached in to the fridge, got out her water took a long refreshing gulp, put it back and closed the fridge. Argh! Piper who was not at the fridge walked over opened the fridge and got Landis her milk from behind Lela’s water since she so nicely placed it right in front of Landis’ milk. I tell ya that child.
Then later I asked Lela specifically to go and get Landis’ water, the girls had gone in to get their waters and I asked them to bring out Landis’ when they came but no one did. I was busy tying a skeleton to a tree. Lela would not get it, she didn’t even budge. HA!
Now to make this fair Lela has been going through something lately. She loves to talk about vampires, witches, halloween and such and I think she puts up a really brave front but with all this bravery and big talk I think she has scared herself silly. She has started waking up in the night and calling for us to come get her (instead of her usual walking in to our room) and she is hesitant to go anywhere alone, even to get her panties and her clothes to get dressed. She won’t admit she is afraid, something that Piper routinely does, and I think she is just acting tough since Piper admits that things scare her. It is an interesting twist in their symbiotic twin relationship and we will have to see how it plays out. I think this is one reason she is being less than helpful lately, she doesn’t want to do anything alone.